The Belonging Triangle · A free assessment
Design a gathering people belong to.
A short self-assessment for hosts, organizers, and community builders. Thirty yes/no questions. Your gathering scored across three sides, and a picture of where belonging is strongest.
Takes about 5 minutes · 30 questions · three sections
How it works
Three sides. Ten questions each. One picture of your gathering.
Each section looks at a different side of how belonging actually gets built, and where it tends to break.
Do people know how to be here?
Making the invisible visible: the norms, the rules, the 'how we do things here,' made explicit.
Do people know how to contribute?
Pathways, not pressure. Showing what good participation looks like: multiple entry points, not a single door.
Why would people come back?
The space between gatherings: connective tissue, recognizing contribution, and the path from new to regular to core.
A note: this framework assumes a foundation of safety. Without it, none of the three sides can hold.